Is so important in home ed and parenting in general. The right words can make a complex idea click or a chore into a game.
I chanced upon exactly the right choice of words on Friday that took him from edge of melt down defiance to excited embracing of a project and flowing with ideas. I’d love to say it was a well thought out plan and there wasn’t months of cajoling and resistance beforehand but heyho.
I have tried everything to interest Sam in creative writing and failed. He’s never going to write for fun like Jack but I think we’ve reached the point where a bit of basic skills are needed. I don’t think he’ll be interested in going to Seniors next year but like doors to be open and this is probably our big gap. I’ve laid the building blocks and he can be very creative at times but he finds it hard and shuts down. We have spent all the academic year working on bits relating to writing fantasy stories, a couple of sentences here, character out line there, very small short steps. We’re now at the point of trying to pull it all together, it is all there. He thinks he can’t do it though and therefore won’t try.
The frustrating thing is he has spent hours this week describing plans for imaginative computer games, so I know he can be creative. Inspiration hit! ‘Don’t think of it as a story think of it as describing the route through a computer game; the quest you need do to win, the magic items etc’. Never seen such a rapid change, suddenly there was a file with a detailed plot line ready to expand on,
It was bucketing down and Jack was home ill so it was a day for catching up with stuff at home.
We looked at rivers and marked some of the most famous ones on a map. We talked about the importance of rivers to humans and how so many important settlements are on rivers. I made cards which listed some of the world’s capital cities and matching cards with their rivers and he used an atlas to help match them.
We moved on in science to looking at weathering. We had quite a bit of reading to do and I made the mistake of reading denudation as de-nude-ation which caused much hilarity. We froze a very full glass of water with a plate and weight on top and saw how the ice expanded and pushed the plate up. We also took too wet lumps of clay and froze one. Comparing them today. Photo doesn’t show clearly but the frozen one was cracked.
We’re sticking with Pop Art for art I think there is a lot more fun to be had here. We looked at Jasper Johns Map. After some discussion we decided Sam’s take would be flood filling on paintshop a European map.
Rest of the day went to play, baking and work.